1 00:00:01,499 --> 00:00:03,100 Previously on Married to Medicine. 2 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:06,340 Welcome to Grand Bahamas and all of the people. 3 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:11,860 I don't know what the fuck about to go down. I don't know what's going to 4 00:00:11,860 --> 00:00:14,480 happen. This Mariah, she on a trip with us after all this time. 5 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:16,200 I'm kind of scared. 6 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:18,080 I just feel like y 'all didn't do shit. 7 00:00:18,340 --> 00:00:21,380 Like I was four months pregnant with twins and y 'all couldn't even send me a 8 00:00:21,380 --> 00:00:24,460 bouquet together. I'm not going to say I'm sorry at all. 9 00:00:24,700 --> 00:00:25,920 You and Mariah are not friends. 10 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:28,400 We have not spoken in months. 11 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:32,860 I've made millions of dollars is promoting opportunity. And off of other 12 00:00:32,860 --> 00:00:35,320 people's backs of pyramid marketing schemes is. 13 00:00:35,820 --> 00:00:39,340 I think Jill is an absolute ass for doing this at the dinner table. 14 00:00:39,580 --> 00:00:44,020 I consider you guys family because we're connected at this point. 15 00:00:44,320 --> 00:00:45,320 That's not right. 16 00:00:45,580 --> 00:00:47,180 This ain't family. I don't do this shit. 17 00:00:47,460 --> 00:00:48,820 This ain't family. 18 00:00:49,140 --> 00:00:51,440 No. We are not family. 19 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:55,300 Your actions have proven that we are not family. 20 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:56,780 I ain't ready for this. 21 00:00:57,000 --> 00:00:58,960 And I told you I wasn't ready for this. 22 00:01:31,520 --> 00:01:32,680 Good morning, babe. 23 00:01:33,260 --> 00:01:35,700 Morning. How are you? You need coffee? 24 00:01:36,380 --> 00:01:37,820 How you doing? 25 00:01:38,060 --> 00:01:40,160 Oh, you got your little morning reading going on? Mm -hmm. 26 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:42,120 Trying to think like a man. 27 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:47,600 It's a brand new day, and I'm going to face the day with a new perspective. 28 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:50,920 I love the beach. I could just live on the beach. 29 00:01:51,140 --> 00:01:56,100 So I'm sipping my tea and reading my book. And this book is going to help me 30 00:01:56,100 --> 00:01:59,300 right into the mode because I'm learning to think like a man. 31 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:00,760 Yes, Steve Harvey. 32 00:02:00,980 --> 00:02:03,180 I'm going to just sit back and watch. 33 00:02:03,420 --> 00:02:08,479 And I think by the end of this trip, we will have a good grad whether or not 34 00:02:08,479 --> 00:02:15,420 this is a genuine group or is it a few genuine gems in this group. 35 00:02:19,980 --> 00:02:22,680 What are you doing over there? 36 00:02:22,940 --> 00:02:25,860 Just trying to get in touch with Keisha to check on my dad. 37 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:27,960 Hey, Keisha. 38 00:02:28,860 --> 00:02:29,860 How's my daddy? 39 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:32,820 No fever or anything? 40 00:02:33,820 --> 00:02:40,340 No matter where I am and what I'm doing, I'm always thinking, what's up with my 41 00:02:40,340 --> 00:02:46,260 dad? And being here, I still can't forget that things are going on back at 42 00:02:48,330 --> 00:02:54,250 Well, everybody still has ten fingers and ten toes, two legs, two arms. 43 00:02:55,950 --> 00:02:59,190 Well, you know, we got plenty of extra if we losing. 44 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:19,820 I just felt like I needed some company, so I came over. He'll be here today, 45 00:03:19,940 --> 00:03:24,700 though. It was kind of nice to spend a night alone without any kids or any 46 00:03:24,700 --> 00:03:27,980 husband. Not that I would want to do it every night, but I kind of enjoyed 47 00:03:27,980 --> 00:03:30,020 getting to know myself a little better. 48 00:03:34,180 --> 00:03:35,420 Is something in your makeup? 49 00:03:35,900 --> 00:03:36,900 I ain't in the makeup. 50 00:03:37,580 --> 00:03:38,800 I woke up like this. 51 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:46,520 Heavenly first thing in the morning wasn't heavenly? 52 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:50,880 That didn't make you feel good? You woke up, you saw two women in your room, in 53 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:51,880 your bed? 54 00:03:52,420 --> 00:03:54,160 Y 'all ready? What's going on? 55 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:59,180 No, seeing heavenly first thing in the morning was not some weird fantasy where 56 00:03:59,180 --> 00:04:01,800 I was going to have a threesome with my wife. No. 57 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:04,740 Get off my bed. 58 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:09,140 This is beautiful out here. 59 00:04:09,660 --> 00:04:12,660 The sand is nice. Water is always pretty. 60 00:04:13,460 --> 00:04:18,579 Water is a very tranquil place to be. I always feel at peace when I'm around 61 00:04:18,579 --> 00:04:21,360 water. You know the thing about water, though? It can be your friend, but it 62 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:22,940 be... Well, 63 00:04:24,000 --> 00:04:25,000 when that hair will fall. 64 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:28,740 I can't have my hair pieces getting all wet up, honey. 65 00:04:28,960 --> 00:04:30,640 This is chocolate. I might melt. 66 00:04:31,100 --> 00:04:34,020 I had a chance to talk to Mariah last night. 67 00:04:34,320 --> 00:04:38,500 Oh, did you? Yeah. You know, my heart goes out to anybody who has lost a 68 00:04:38,500 --> 00:04:40,120 pregnancy. Oh, it's hard. 69 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:42,480 Absolutely. I'm sure it has to be hard. 70 00:04:43,050 --> 00:04:49,330 You know what? I was really, really, really happy when you made your say that 71 00:04:49,330 --> 00:04:51,410 you were saying it's time for forgiveness. 72 00:04:52,490 --> 00:04:58,250 I'm here today to accept whatever responsibility that I've done at this 73 00:04:58,250 --> 00:05:02,850 anyone. So I don't claim to be perfect, but I am big enough to say that I'm not. 74 00:05:03,010 --> 00:05:04,010 Thank you. 75 00:05:06,070 --> 00:05:11,610 Seeing what they have, he and Mariah have progressed past. 76 00:05:12,140 --> 00:05:17,340 All of the craziness is an encouraging sign that Kauai is definitely growing 77 00:05:17,340 --> 00:05:19,260 herself. I'm really proud of her. 78 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:25,200 You know, I'm not completely there. But a journey of a million miles started 79 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:28,860 with one step. One step, baby. And I just took the first step. You made a 80 00:05:29,540 --> 00:05:30,540 Yeah, 81 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:33,420 that's okay. However small it is, it's a step. 82 00:05:42,120 --> 00:05:43,120 How are you doing? 83 00:05:43,180 --> 00:05:44,180 Pastor Earl? 84 00:05:44,260 --> 00:05:47,720 Yes. And Karen? I'm Karen, yes. Oh, you know, we're from the South. We do hug. 85 00:05:48,160 --> 00:05:52,720 Thank you so much for being willing to meet with us. I think it is really 86 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:58,880 important that this group, Doctors and the Wives, that we do a medical mission 87 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:00,940 while we're here on the island. 88 00:06:01,160 --> 00:06:06,280 We are so impressed with Care of Them and all the work you've done all over 89 00:06:06,280 --> 00:06:12,120 world. It gives us the opportunity to do something meaningful, but to also 90 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:17,660 continue to ground us and show us how blessed we are in that life we're living 91 00:06:17,660 --> 00:06:18,660 back home. 92 00:06:18,920 --> 00:06:22,520 Well, the Bahamas has what we call two faces of paradise. 93 00:06:23,200 --> 00:06:28,000 The first face, the one you see here, and then the second face is where people 94 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:32,700 are in need. So when we heard that there were doctors in the midst, we came up 95 00:06:32,700 --> 00:06:34,720 with the thought of screening some of the individuals. 96 00:06:35,450 --> 00:06:39,930 who may need help with understanding blood pressure, and then diabetes. We 97 00:06:39,930 --> 00:06:42,890 that a lot of our folks are coming up with diabetes. 98 00:06:43,130 --> 00:06:45,110 So are there supplies we could provide? 99 00:06:45,390 --> 00:06:48,670 We always love to feed folks and give them drugs. Nothing wrong with eating, 100 00:06:48,750 --> 00:06:51,730 right? Oh, I'm telling you. Nothing wrong with eating. I'm all for that. 101 00:06:52,110 --> 00:06:57,130 Anytime we travel back to Bangladesh, we really try to give back because that's 102 00:06:57,130 --> 00:06:58,310 my husband's motherland. 103 00:06:58,750 --> 00:06:59,810 And we feed. 104 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:06,400 Thousands of people. The last time we went, we fed over 5 ,000 people, and 105 00:07:06,400 --> 00:07:10,420 just really resonated with me. So we'll be looking forward to seeing you and 106 00:07:10,420 --> 00:07:11,700 spending time with you tomorrow. 107 00:07:11,980 --> 00:07:15,300 We are as well. Okay, thank you so much. See you guys tomorrow. 108 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:16,600 Thank you so much. 109 00:07:16,780 --> 00:07:21,440 It's not just about doing it at home, but realizing that every community is 110 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:22,840 affected by the other. 111 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:28,040 Eat a little bit of the cheese and grape. You know me, but with the cheese. 112 00:07:28,580 --> 00:07:33,620 I don't want to get you all in an emotional place today, but can you tell 113 00:07:33,620 --> 00:07:36,200 what happened at dinner last night? Because I looked down at the end of the 114 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:37,420 table, Mariah, and you were crying. 115 00:07:37,740 --> 00:07:38,740 I hate that. 116 00:07:38,800 --> 00:07:43,620 You know, I do not like crying in the midst of people that I don't feel like 117 00:07:43,620 --> 00:07:45,040 truly have my back. 118 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:47,740 I thought I was at a place. 119 00:07:48,440 --> 00:07:51,680 where I have gotten past a lot of things, and I could do it, and I could 120 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:55,280 give faith, and be funny, and be fabulous, and just come back in. 121 00:07:55,560 --> 00:07:57,160 But I realize that I'm human. 122 00:07:57,380 --> 00:08:00,120 And I'm still dealing with some real, real stuff. 123 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:03,360 The hardest thing for me is this forgiveness thing. 124 00:08:03,980 --> 00:08:05,500 Even with why, I don't understand. 125 00:08:06,580 --> 00:08:11,140 Like, I love, I hug, I smile, but I've been hurt. 126 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:12,860 Cut to the core. 127 00:08:14,570 --> 00:08:20,630 I'm hoping at some point that Mariah can truly just put the past behind her and 128 00:08:20,630 --> 00:08:26,230 understand that no one is perfect. And just as she makes mistakes and people in 129 00:08:26,230 --> 00:08:30,170 the group forgive her, that she too at some point will have to forgive others 130 00:08:30,170 --> 00:08:31,170 for their mistakes. 131 00:08:31,610 --> 00:08:37,110 But I think it's important that the girls see that human side. Do you? Yes. 132 00:08:37,330 --> 00:08:40,309 I don't feel like that. Give all of you. 133 00:08:41,110 --> 00:08:46,290 and ask your friend, take or leave all of me. Well, the issue with that is the 134 00:08:46,290 --> 00:08:51,250 part that I've given has been rejected. And you have to be real about that. 135 00:08:51,330 --> 00:08:51,989 That's true. 136 00:08:51,990 --> 00:08:55,470 You know, so why would I give more if they're not accepting what I have given 137 00:08:55,470 --> 00:08:59,450 already? Give them that part of you that they can accept and deal with. The rest 138 00:08:59,450 --> 00:09:02,630 of it, you put it in a box, you save it for later. 139 00:09:02,890 --> 00:09:07,270 Because I promise you later is coming. Well, that's how I am. That's where I am 140 00:09:07,270 --> 00:09:08,270 right now. 141 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:11,420 I don't think I have a lot of expectations for friends. 142 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:16,020 The only thing I expect is to be treated the way I treat them. I treat them 143 00:09:16,020 --> 00:09:18,040 great. I expect to be treated good in return. 144 00:09:18,720 --> 00:09:20,420 I don't think that's too much to ask. 145 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:22,020 I'm trying to move forward. 146 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:24,160 What does move forward mean? 147 00:09:24,740 --> 00:09:29,320 It means that the car is not in drive, nor is it in reverse. 148 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:30,760 It's in neutral? 149 00:09:30,820 --> 00:09:31,820 Bitch, it's in neutral. 150 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:35,680 I'm just sitting back and I'm watching everything. And I think that this 151 00:09:35,680 --> 00:09:37,260 vacation is going to tell me a lot. 152 00:09:37,770 --> 00:09:42,050 And it's going to let me know which direction I should go in and if I should 153 00:09:42,050 --> 00:09:43,330 in that direction with certain people. 154 00:09:52,330 --> 00:09:53,330 Beautiful. 155 00:09:53,750 --> 00:09:57,690 We had an interesting night last night. I'm glad we got through that night. Oh, 156 00:09:57,690 --> 00:09:58,609 my goodness. 157 00:09:58,610 --> 00:10:01,510 Imagine someone saying, dentistry is both. 158 00:10:02,410 --> 00:10:06,290 I have no idea why Jill feels the need to keep attacking my profession. 159 00:10:06,690 --> 00:10:11,130 Maybe she feels like we still have beef from the strip club situation. 160 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:16,960 I apologize to her at having these angels, but in case she didn't remember, 161 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:17,960 sorry, Jill. 162 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:22,400 I feel like she's educated, she's... Educated does not mean intelligent, and 163 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:26,560 don't see how she got her education from a great school. She must have slept 164 00:10:26,560 --> 00:10:32,480 with the janitor to the professor to the damn president, because there's no 165 00:10:32,480 --> 00:10:36,760 f***ing way. I don't think it's okay at any time to attack somebody and how they 166 00:10:36,760 --> 00:10:37,719 make their money. 167 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:42,100 You know? And it's been very successful for her. And if Jill can't do it, live 168 00:10:42,100 --> 00:10:44,220 and let live. I ain't thinking about them strippers. 169 00:10:44,800 --> 00:10:46,880 Can't she have a, what is it, a fraudulent slip? 170 00:10:47,860 --> 00:10:49,340 Fraudulent slip. 171 00:10:49,700 --> 00:10:53,420 Fraudulent slip means you really think it, you just don't say it. And then come 172 00:10:53,420 --> 00:10:55,800 over to me saying, your man said, fuck you. 173 00:10:56,100 --> 00:10:58,860 And it didn't happen. And say, oh, maybe not. Thought only. 174 00:10:59,660 --> 00:11:00,660 Say that. 175 00:11:00,720 --> 00:11:03,680 And then say, oh, well, maybe not. Just lie. Because you're going to turn 176 00:11:03,680 --> 00:11:06,420 yourself a comfortable line. Okay, so I get that. 177 00:11:06,750 --> 00:11:07,750 That was bad. 178 00:11:09,390 --> 00:11:10,390 Hey. 179 00:11:11,190 --> 00:11:12,310 You look cute. 180 00:11:13,090 --> 00:11:14,830 Did you wear your shoes in the sand? 181 00:11:15,070 --> 00:11:18,630 I did like an idiot. I know you was walking backwards because I was going 182 00:11:18,630 --> 00:11:23,690 this. It is hard to walk with these on. That's why you wear flip -flops on the 183 00:11:23,690 --> 00:11:25,330 beach. But they're not as sexy. 184 00:11:27,270 --> 00:11:28,270 True that. 185 00:11:30,380 --> 00:11:34,060 They don't want to be style yesterday. She speaks to her. You ain't even speak. 186 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:37,620 I can't have intelligent conversations with people that are not intelligent. 187 00:11:37,820 --> 00:11:41,720 That's what I'm saying. I'm saying that I will not have a baby doll. What? 188 00:11:41,860 --> 00:11:43,660 Excuse me. I can read you. 189 00:11:44,520 --> 00:11:48,260 It's not about a read doll. And it's not, it's about being respectful to one 190 00:11:48,260 --> 00:11:49,700 another. It's about being intelligent. 191 00:11:52,380 --> 00:11:55,100 We're not going to have a conversation with someone. I feel not. It's not 192 00:11:55,100 --> 00:11:57,600 intelligent. I'm not going to wait. Are you saying that I'm not intelligent? 193 00:11:58,020 --> 00:11:59,020 Exactly. 194 00:11:59,939 --> 00:12:01,840 Coming up on Married to Medicine. 195 00:12:02,500 --> 00:12:07,880 I'm just at a place where I feel like if you don't have trust, you don't have a 196 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:08,880 marriage. 197 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:12,560 You stay so stupid. 198 00:12:12,940 --> 00:12:15,480 So do you. No, no, no, not you. It's true, too. 199 00:12:16,500 --> 00:12:21,820 Inappropriate. Honey, you can't talk to a man without your husband. No, you are 200 00:12:21,820 --> 00:12:23,420 a stupid woman. You know why? 201 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:25,579 You know why? 202 00:12:25,580 --> 00:12:30,320 Because you lied. You made something out of nothing. What did I lie? My husband 203 00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:31,920 and your husband had a conversation. 204 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:37,120 Had a conversation that was men and men. It was nothing. It was very respectful. 205 00:12:37,260 --> 00:12:38,260 You came back and lied. 206 00:12:38,680 --> 00:12:42,900 She starts unnecessary conflict between my husband and her husband. 207 00:12:43,340 --> 00:12:45,800 Your husband said you to my husband? I think so. 208 00:12:46,680 --> 00:12:49,300 Did John Turner say something inappropriate to you? 209 00:12:49,540 --> 00:12:53,100 No. And when even I asked her, I said, he said, she said, yeah, he did. 210 00:12:54,589 --> 00:12:55,589 Goofy ass. 211 00:12:55,990 --> 00:12:59,050 I'm not going to have a conversation with somebody I don't think is 212 00:12:59,270 --> 00:13:03,250 I will not do it. I will not do it. You're a dumb bitch. Your mama. 213 00:13:03,870 --> 00:13:05,370 You're a dumb bitch. 214 00:13:05,750 --> 00:13:08,770 You kissed my ass. You need daddy to come to your rescue. 215 00:13:09,150 --> 00:13:12,830 You need daddy to come to your rescue when you can't stand up for her. You 216 00:13:12,830 --> 00:13:17,410 assume something. He needs daddy to come run to her because she can't hold her 217 00:13:17,410 --> 00:13:18,410 own. 218 00:13:18,990 --> 00:13:23,470 She is quick to say that everybody else is stupid because she's insecure. 219 00:13:23,750 --> 00:13:27,590 I don't know. I think she's threatened by me or jealous of me. Get her under 220 00:13:27,590 --> 00:13:31,250 control, okay? No, I can get myself under control. I didn't throw water and 221 00:13:31,250 --> 00:13:34,550 someone. Lisa, Lisa. I'm just saying. I'm just saying. 222 00:13:36,170 --> 00:13:37,910 I'm just saying. Damn. 223 00:13:38,250 --> 00:13:39,250 It's the truth. 224 00:13:39,270 --> 00:13:41,750 I swear I've been sitting on this beach for all of ten minutes. 225 00:13:42,290 --> 00:13:43,370 Ten minutes. 226 00:13:43,590 --> 00:13:48,310 We ain't laid out. We had no cocktails. Where are the cocktails? I had nothing. 227 00:13:48,910 --> 00:13:50,790 And this is the beginning to my beat. 228 00:13:51,190 --> 00:13:53,490 Really? God. That's so crazy. 229 00:13:54,070 --> 00:13:55,150 She is so damn dumb. God damn. 230 00:13:55,510 --> 00:13:59,870 I can't do it. You are a stupid bitch. What kind of conversation is that? 231 00:14:00,270 --> 00:14:03,330 I just feel like this woman has insulted everybody. 232 00:14:03,550 --> 00:14:07,170 And then she calls me a dumb bitch. Bitch, you the dumbest bitch here. 233 00:14:07,530 --> 00:14:08,530 Do you not get that? 234 00:14:08,810 --> 00:14:09,810 Oh, my God. 235 00:14:09,830 --> 00:14:13,550 I'm not going to have a conversation with a four -year -old. 236 00:14:13,790 --> 00:14:17,170 Toya can do it because y 'all on the same level. But I cannot do that. 237 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:19,420 You just went from you're a dumb bitch. 238 00:14:19,880 --> 00:14:24,260 He just called me stupid. I'm sorry. You can't call me stupid and not expect a 239 00:14:24,260 --> 00:14:25,980 reaction. You know I understand stupid. 240 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:29,560 You know I understand when you're verbally attacked and people are 241 00:14:29,560 --> 00:14:30,560 your intelligence. 242 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:33,860 Use a brain. Oh, oops. She might not have one. 243 00:14:34,480 --> 00:14:39,180 She said you had no money, whatever, last year, and she was relentless on 244 00:14:39,460 --> 00:14:44,180 She has fake Louis Vuitton luggage, a fake Rolex that doesn't even work, and 245 00:14:44,180 --> 00:14:46,020 she's saying that you can't afford your house. 246 00:14:46,430 --> 00:14:50,470 I know what you can't afford. Lisa hasn't paid her taxes or whatever, but 247 00:14:50,470 --> 00:14:53,150 saying she's a millionaire and she goes over and over and over again, I'm a 248 00:14:53,150 --> 00:14:55,950 millionaire. I mean, come on. These girls are foolish. 249 00:14:56,530 --> 00:14:58,070 They are. They're fake ass bitches. 250 00:14:58,350 --> 00:15:02,590 But the reality is, do you really want to sit here and go back and forth with 251 00:15:02,590 --> 00:15:03,590 these heifers? 252 00:15:08,190 --> 00:15:09,190 Finally, 253 00:15:13,130 --> 00:15:15,390 we have a nice event with just the guys. 254 00:15:15,980 --> 00:15:16,719 No women. 255 00:15:16,720 --> 00:15:17,720 No drama. 256 00:15:17,820 --> 00:15:21,800 Don't make it seem like the women bring drama to your life. No women. We bring 257 00:15:21,800 --> 00:15:23,320 excitement to your life. 258 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:28,920 Thank you, sir. What's your name, man? Tony. Tony. We have roast conch, conch 259 00:15:28,920 --> 00:15:30,160 salad, roast conch with shrimp. 260 00:15:30,760 --> 00:15:32,600 The conch burger is similar to your hamburger. 261 00:15:33,020 --> 00:15:34,040 Tony Macaron. 262 00:15:34,620 --> 00:15:36,600 He has his own conch shop. 263 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:38,320 He's retired. 264 00:15:38,380 --> 00:15:40,520 He opens up when he feels like it. 265 00:15:41,420 --> 00:15:42,820 Wow. He's my hero. 266 00:15:43,550 --> 00:15:46,330 Can you do a really good cheeseburger? 267 00:15:46,750 --> 00:15:47,750 That's what I want. 268 00:15:47,810 --> 00:15:50,190 You and I, we could open a Kong shop together. 269 00:15:50,650 --> 00:15:52,330 Did I say his wife was out there? 270 00:15:52,710 --> 00:15:53,710 I'm just saying. 271 00:15:53,990 --> 00:15:55,410 Did I say Tony and Simone? 272 00:15:55,830 --> 00:15:56,830 I'm just saying. 273 00:15:56,850 --> 00:16:02,150 Tony Macaroni. I wish Damon had made it, man. Yeah, and I wish you, man. I wish 274 00:16:02,150 --> 00:16:03,150 Damon had made it. 275 00:16:03,430 --> 00:16:06,950 So, John, have you figured out how you want to handle this? 276 00:16:07,260 --> 00:16:10,480 Your Damon discussion is going to be separate? I really don't want to kind of 277 00:16:10,480 --> 00:16:14,680 say, okay, this is my side of the story without Damon here. Because that's not 278 00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:15,680 fair to him. Right. 279 00:16:16,400 --> 00:16:20,000 I'm not going to bring this up without Damon here because I think it's 280 00:16:20,000 --> 00:16:24,020 disrespectful. In general, when you work at a strip club, a lot of those women 281 00:16:24,020 --> 00:16:26,360 do go home with the men. You know what they say when you assume. 282 00:16:28,340 --> 00:16:31,740 Don't disrespect my wife. I never meant to disrespect you or your wife. 283 00:16:32,260 --> 00:16:33,360 Great talk. You're going to leave me? 284 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:34,980 Yeah. I don't know Damon. 285 00:16:36,030 --> 00:16:40,110 And I certainly, you know, first impressions mean the world, and I 286 00:16:40,110 --> 00:16:43,630 to, you know, leave a bad taste in his mouth. He's already left a bad taste in 287 00:16:43,630 --> 00:16:44,589 my mouth. 288 00:16:44,590 --> 00:16:49,070 We get it, and I think, just to your point, I think it'll be quick, out of 289 00:16:49,070 --> 00:16:51,670 way, boom, that's all. We're going to reenact the way it was before. 290 00:16:52,550 --> 00:16:55,530 Cigars, guys, and we'll get it over with. 291 00:16:55,770 --> 00:17:00,970 I certainly don't want to pass judgment on, you know, his ulterior motives, but 292 00:17:00,970 --> 00:17:05,069 I think I need to find time to speak with him and figure this out. 293 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:08,900 This is an old cunt right there. How do you know? I've eaten enough in the last 294 00:17:08,900 --> 00:17:10,440 two days. I know the old stuff. 295 00:17:11,500 --> 00:17:13,339 You hear the ocean or something? 296 00:17:13,560 --> 00:17:16,680 Something about the ocean is just relaxing, just calm. 297 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:20,400 Maybe we should make the ladies come out here a little more. 298 00:17:21,480 --> 00:17:23,740 Isn't it really all the ocean? You're right. 299 00:17:23,940 --> 00:17:26,599 It was ocean last night. It was calm. 300 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:28,560 Right? 301 00:17:29,000 --> 00:17:31,180 Blonde? Do you not see that? 302 00:17:31,600 --> 00:17:32,600 You were... 303 00:17:38,080 --> 00:17:41,960 Why do the ladies do these things? I mean, why do they do these things? 304 00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:46,000 Sometimes it's not even worth trying to figure out the intent, because we're 305 00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:49,040 men, and they're women, and I don't think we're ever going to really get it. 306 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:51,400 Even if you figure it out, you're not going to understand. Right, we're not 307 00:17:51,400 --> 00:17:52,400 going to get why. 308 00:17:52,900 --> 00:17:55,760 It's not fun when a guy wouldn't even do that. Anyway, we just want to thank 309 00:17:55,760 --> 00:17:57,600 Cecil. Good looking out, man. 310 00:17:57,960 --> 00:17:59,820 Yeah, man. Good day, good day, good day. 311 00:18:07,990 --> 00:18:09,850 Y 'all gonna bring her back over here, okay? 312 00:18:10,170 --> 00:18:12,630 All right, come on. Can we just make this right? 313 00:18:12,930 --> 00:18:16,230 Because Heavenly said, I'm not gonna talk to you because I don't talk to 314 00:18:16,230 --> 00:18:18,970 ignorant people. I said people that are not intelligent. 315 00:18:19,350 --> 00:18:21,490 But I am intelligent. Why would you think I'm not intelligent? 316 00:18:21,730 --> 00:18:23,250 You say things that are not true. 317 00:18:23,490 --> 00:18:24,490 Okay. Okay? 318 00:18:24,630 --> 00:18:27,910 Because you're saying that when I said that John said you to Damon. Right. 319 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:30,420 I misunderstood. I thought my husband said you. 320 00:18:30,700 --> 00:18:34,860 Right. And maybe he should have, but he didn't. No, he shouldn't have. He 321 00:18:34,860 --> 00:18:35,639 shouldn't have. 322 00:18:35,640 --> 00:18:39,060 He might say it right there. Okay, pause. If he does, I think it'll be 323 00:18:39,060 --> 00:18:44,580 Pause. Pause right here. This is the problem right there. You say sorry, and 324 00:18:44,580 --> 00:18:50,860 then in the next sentence, you become dumb and refuse it, which is why I then 325 00:18:50,860 --> 00:18:53,300 say, Blondie, what are you not getting? 326 00:18:54,170 --> 00:18:59,150 This girl has no boundaries. I mean, she just keeps going and going and going 327 00:18:59,150 --> 00:19:03,430 and saying one dumb thing after another dumb thing. Emily, I don't want you to 328 00:19:03,430 --> 00:19:04,430 walk away. I don't. 329 00:19:04,770 --> 00:19:07,110 I don't. Okay, wow. That's it. Wow. 330 00:19:07,590 --> 00:19:10,990 That's a big statement, and it's not true because you tell lies, and that's 331 00:19:10,990 --> 00:19:12,790 definitely one of my lies. No, I told you it was a misunderstanding. 332 00:19:13,110 --> 00:19:17,310 I mean, don't get me wrong. I love the fact that Jill is not one of those 333 00:19:17,310 --> 00:19:20,310 pushover white girls, per se. 334 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:23,960 You know, because people will come at them. You know, they feel like, oh, 335 00:19:23,960 --> 00:19:24,960 they're weak. She's small. 336 00:19:25,240 --> 00:19:29,180 I think some things she needs to just blow off because things are getting way 337 00:19:29,180 --> 00:19:31,020 too out of hand way too quickly. 338 00:19:31,520 --> 00:19:33,940 How old are y 'all grown -ass women? 339 00:19:34,460 --> 00:19:35,460 Like, stop. 340 00:19:35,540 --> 00:19:37,160 Like, come on. Like, for real. 341 00:19:37,660 --> 00:19:38,880 Why even try? 342 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:40,239 Why even? 343 00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:42,600 Come on. Don't do it. That's right. 344 00:19:42,880 --> 00:19:46,640 You know what? It's best to drop the issue. So I'm going to be the better 345 00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:49,480 person, and I'm going to walk away before I strangle this bitch. 346 00:19:51,300 --> 00:19:55,580 Coming up, I felt like you guys had a relationship with me. You've known me 347 00:19:55,580 --> 00:19:57,540 years, and you should have believed me. 348 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:01,820 Flip your hand right through there, Dad. 349 00:20:02,140 --> 00:20:03,140 How y 'all doing? 350 00:20:03,420 --> 00:20:06,060 Really stand up as a unit strong. 351 00:20:06,580 --> 00:20:07,580 But what do we do? 352 00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:09,880 We fight about shit that doesn't matter. 353 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:18,500 When are we heading over to mission? 354 00:20:19,020 --> 00:20:21,240 I guess we better get ready and get going now. 355 00:20:21,760 --> 00:20:22,559 Let's go. 356 00:20:22,560 --> 00:20:23,720 You have to say pretty please. 357 00:20:24,160 --> 00:20:26,600 I'm not saying pretty please. This is a mission. 358 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:33,380 I have planned a health fair at a local community center, and we are going to do 359 00:20:33,380 --> 00:20:38,460 some medical screenings like blood pressure, glucose, psychiatric 360 00:20:39,710 --> 00:20:43,730 This is going to be good. It is. I don't think everybody is excited about it. I 361 00:20:43,730 --> 00:20:47,490 am concerned that some of the ladies will not participate in the medical 362 00:20:47,490 --> 00:20:53,470 mission. We might just find Toya off on a cart eating jerk chicken somewhere. 363 00:20:53,950 --> 00:20:54,950 Get your phone. 364 00:20:55,430 --> 00:20:57,210 I feel like you're rushing me. 365 00:20:57,550 --> 00:20:59,710 Take your time, but hurry up. 366 00:21:06,570 --> 00:21:07,229 I'm excited. 367 00:21:07,230 --> 00:21:11,270 I don't know what's planned, but I hated that I couldn't be here on the first 368 00:21:11,270 --> 00:21:15,250 day, but I got to hold the fort down at the practice, so that's what I did. 369 00:21:16,570 --> 00:21:17,570 Hey, buddy. 370 00:21:25,290 --> 00:21:26,290 I miss you so much. 371 00:21:26,410 --> 00:21:30,350 I feel so happy to see my husband. You know, with all the other craziness going 372 00:21:30,350 --> 00:21:35,730 on, when I see Damon, it always brings me to a calming place. So I was just 373 00:21:35,730 --> 00:21:36,730 happy to see him. 374 00:21:36,810 --> 00:21:40,850 The Lord looked at me last night and she said, she said, do you miss your mama? 375 00:21:41,310 --> 00:21:42,470 And I said, yeah. 376 00:21:43,410 --> 00:21:44,410 And I said, you? 377 00:21:44,490 --> 00:21:45,490 And she said, yeah. 378 00:21:45,570 --> 00:21:47,150 And you know how she smiles. 379 00:21:49,290 --> 00:21:53,750 Heavenly, like, I don't talk to unintelligent people. Not much bothers 380 00:21:54,250 --> 00:21:58,510 But there are certain things that do, and then I do get loud. 381 00:21:58,730 --> 00:21:59,790 I'm Jersey. 382 00:22:00,070 --> 00:22:03,650 But that's not an excuse to say that you're Jersey, and that's my upbringing, 383 00:22:03,790 --> 00:22:07,170 and I'm Jersey, so it gives me license to be obnoxious. 384 00:22:07,410 --> 00:22:08,410 It's in my blood. 385 00:22:08,490 --> 00:22:10,510 Well, I understand, but you can change that. 386 00:22:11,910 --> 00:22:16,430 You do know, Toya, that here you drive on the opposite side of the road, right? 387 00:22:16,510 --> 00:22:17,570 Well, it's the same thing. 388 00:22:18,970 --> 00:22:22,530 Yeah, there are laws in the Bahamas. 389 00:22:23,100 --> 00:22:28,400 I think that it's a great idea to go and travel and spend a couple of hours of 390 00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:30,000 your time giving back. 391 00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:33,840 Now, if I'm on my honeymoon, I'm probably not thinking about giving back. 392 00:22:34,120 --> 00:22:35,640 Did anybody bring their phone for the navigation? 393 00:22:36,060 --> 00:22:38,140 It's only one road that goes around the whole island. 394 00:22:40,180 --> 00:22:44,920 I'm okay with going with Mariah and being in this cold space with her. I'm 395 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:49,920 to choose to drive so that if she says something, I can just tone her out and 396 00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:52,040 people will understand that I'm just concentrating on her. 397 00:22:52,350 --> 00:22:53,309 the road. 398 00:22:53,310 --> 00:23:00,230 I'm so glad you organized this. I think it is such a great thing to be able 399 00:23:00,230 --> 00:23:04,990 to come here and have a good time and also do great. I do too. I'm not sure if 400 00:23:04,990 --> 00:23:08,230 everybody was excited about it, but I just thought it'd be a really good 401 00:23:08,230 --> 00:23:12,930 opportunity for us to bond, specifically you and I, Lisa. So I thought it'd be a 402 00:23:12,930 --> 00:23:17,650 good opportunity for us to at least try to get to know one another. 403 00:23:20,360 --> 00:23:21,740 What? Who are you? 404 00:23:22,180 --> 00:23:23,200 Drive the damn car. 405 00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:26,640 You need to be following the left side. Don't worry about nothing else. 406 00:23:26,900 --> 00:23:31,720 It feels good to be in a car with Mariah right now and actually not be arguing, 407 00:23:32,020 --> 00:23:35,360 laughing. And it just, it felt like back in the day. 408 00:23:35,560 --> 00:23:38,620 It felt like this was the person that I knew. This was the person that I became 409 00:23:38,620 --> 00:23:42,900 friends with. So when you sat back and thought about everything from last year, 410 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:45,780 what were your thoughts as far as you... 411 00:23:46,380 --> 00:23:51,240 You know, the whole situation with the group. I just thought that it was, um, I 412 00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:54,980 thought it was very messy. I did in very high school, and I just thought as a 413 00:23:54,980 --> 00:23:55,980 group. But all of us thought that. 414 00:23:56,180 --> 00:24:00,120 Seeing you guys last year go through that thing, too, it was hurtful for me 415 00:24:00,120 --> 00:24:01,180 because, like, I don't know what's happening. Oh, really? 416 00:24:01,380 --> 00:24:04,480 It was hurtful only because I don't fight like that with my best friend. 417 00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:06,820 So it was hurtful for you? It was hurtful to see it. 418 00:24:07,180 --> 00:24:09,280 Because I didn't think y 'all was ever going to come back from that. 419 00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:18,500 and throw tomatoes with you, sweetheart. 420 00:24:19,780 --> 00:24:24,020 Staying on your chariot doesn't mean that you're superior to everyone else. 421 00:24:24,020 --> 00:24:26,920 just means you're not going to go in the gutter with the pigs and the rats. 422 00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:31,340 And I think they're learning the hard way because they're seeing what it's 423 00:24:31,340 --> 00:24:34,860 when they do come off their chariot and hit below the belt. 424 00:24:35,260 --> 00:24:39,040 It should not have got to the place where it happened. 425 00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:42,900 with someone else you know why because i felt like you guys had a relationship 426 00:24:42,900 --> 00:24:47,480 with me you've known me for years so i felt like your loyalty should have been 427 00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:54,280 to me and you should have believed me yeah last year mariah 428 00:24:54,280 --> 00:25:00,820 said i should have left that roach where i found her and she was right 429 00:25:08,270 --> 00:25:11,830 It looks like we are getting close to the place where we're going to do our 430 00:25:11,830 --> 00:25:16,370 medical mission. And what the doctors, what I'm hoping all of my docs will 431 00:25:16,370 --> 00:25:17,390 participate and do. 432 00:25:17,690 --> 00:25:19,170 Does that include Dr. Heavenly? 433 00:25:19,690 --> 00:25:21,590 Yes. Okay. She's one of our docs. 434 00:25:22,270 --> 00:25:24,110 Hey, you guys, I ain't shading. 435 00:25:24,950 --> 00:25:28,210 There's hot tea in the shade, honey. Strong tea. 436 00:25:28,590 --> 00:25:31,290 And it's in a lot of shades. Yes, it is. 437 00:25:31,550 --> 00:25:32,550 What's going on? 438 00:25:33,330 --> 00:25:35,150 Jackie, don't you see not a damn thing? 439 00:25:35,470 --> 00:25:39,850 Hey, hey, Dr. D, will you tell your wife not to talk to my wife like that? 440 00:25:41,590 --> 00:25:43,550 Buddy, please stop talking like that. 441 00:25:43,910 --> 00:25:45,570 All right. Now, we straight there. We straight. 442 00:25:46,690 --> 00:25:50,790 I'm really happy that Simone and Mariah organized this event. I think that this 443 00:25:50,790 --> 00:25:51,790 is what it's all about. 444 00:25:51,910 --> 00:25:57,330 Now, I ain't never did a charity event on vacation, but I'm willing to do it, 445 00:25:57,350 --> 00:25:58,289 you know? 446 00:25:58,290 --> 00:26:01,790 Yeah. And, I mean, we didn't have any pre -notice, but. 447 00:26:02,419 --> 00:26:06,700 That's okay. We'll do it anyway. I think the biggest impact that we're going to 448 00:26:06,700 --> 00:26:10,720 have today here locally really is going to be addressing high blood pressure and 449 00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:12,140 blood sugar. Right, yeah. 450 00:26:12,360 --> 00:26:16,400 If you find an elevated blood pressure or an elevated blood sugar, we're going 451 00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:22,520 to put their name, date of birth on a card, and then we have to give that to 452 00:26:22,520 --> 00:26:26,660 people who run Karazine so that they can make sure that these people are 453 00:26:26,660 --> 00:26:27,660 followed up. 454 00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:30,980 with clinics that do provide some free care. 455 00:26:31,380 --> 00:26:36,680 Curtis and I are going to have a hugging and a kissing station. 456 00:26:37,340 --> 00:26:39,540 We're going to keep them in line, keep them going forward. 457 00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:42,540 We're not medical, so we're just going to hug and kiss. 458 00:26:43,500 --> 00:26:45,000 Your blood pressure is 250. 459 00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:46,380 Go get that checked out. 460 00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:50,040 Okay. 461 00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:51,600 We're here. 462 00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:54,400 Good to see you hugging. 463 00:26:54,970 --> 00:26:56,310 And I brought friends. 464 00:26:56,650 --> 00:26:57,650 Thank you. 465 00:26:57,730 --> 00:26:59,730 This is Lisa. 466 00:27:00,030 --> 00:27:03,510 How are you? This is Toya. Hi, Lisa. We hug in the Bahamas. 467 00:27:03,710 --> 00:27:08,550 This is a very last -minute project, so I don't have many expectations. 468 00:27:09,130 --> 00:27:12,910 If we're able to help one family, then we've done our job. 469 00:27:14,490 --> 00:27:15,630 Here comes trouble. 470 00:27:17,110 --> 00:27:18,110 What's that? 471 00:27:18,870 --> 00:27:20,050 Blood pressure. 472 00:27:21,389 --> 00:27:25,710 cuff and the lancets and everything to check blood sugar. You know, we've been 473 00:27:25,710 --> 00:27:30,330 given gifts to be physicians, and we're looking forward to just, you know, 474 00:27:30,330 --> 00:27:34,410 sharing our talents and our services, you know, with the people here, and 475 00:27:34,410 --> 00:27:36,370 hopefully we'll be a blessing to somebody. 476 00:27:36,650 --> 00:27:39,090 We've invited some families to come. 477 00:27:39,530 --> 00:27:42,890 those who really cannot afford to go to the clinic and that sort of thing, and 478 00:27:42,890 --> 00:27:47,690 they're less fortunate than some of us. The way we have it set up is because you 479 00:27:47,690 --> 00:27:51,830 guys are doing, you know, checks and stuff upstairs, so all the doctors will 480 00:27:51,830 --> 00:27:55,370 upstairs and everyone else will stay down here and we'll handle the food. 481 00:28:02,280 --> 00:28:06,260 We need one person to do a check -in. We do blood pressure, and then you do 482 00:28:06,260 --> 00:28:10,760 blood sugar, and then you have like a consultation check -out. Just in case of 483 00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:11,920 emergency, I got IV fluid. 484 00:28:12,300 --> 00:28:14,020 You got a mass unit in here. You got everything. 485 00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:16,000 Hey, does this not feel like the apprentice? 486 00:28:16,660 --> 00:28:20,160 You know, we got a team in here. We got to do this, and we're going to do this. 487 00:28:20,560 --> 00:28:23,320 Can you put a knot in these for me? And we're going to stick them right here. 488 00:28:23,460 --> 00:28:24,980 Come on now. 489 00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:26,940 You been getting the people crack all day. 490 00:28:27,340 --> 00:28:29,280 You got to have a little sign. You seeing some crack? 491 00:28:29,740 --> 00:28:31,200 Yeah. Okay, cognac. 492 00:28:31,690 --> 00:28:32,690 Girl, my pants fit. 493 00:28:33,010 --> 00:28:33,789 Oh, okay. 494 00:28:33,790 --> 00:28:35,730 My pants fit. It depends on what you call fit. 495 00:28:36,070 --> 00:28:37,070 You want some of my ass? 496 00:28:37,510 --> 00:28:41,290 Damn, her damn ass is colossal, ain't it? Like, goddamn, did she get some 497 00:28:41,290 --> 00:28:43,070 injections from damn Jill's husband? 498 00:28:43,290 --> 00:28:44,730 Where'd she get all that ass from? 499 00:28:45,990 --> 00:28:50,310 Okay, we have our first patron. 500 00:28:50,510 --> 00:28:51,730 This is the Hanfield family. 501 00:28:51,990 --> 00:28:53,610 Hello, how are you doing today? 502 00:28:53,810 --> 00:28:54,850 Nice to meet you. 503 00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:56,659 How y 'all doing? 504 00:28:56,660 --> 00:29:00,680 So what we're going to do, I think, is take you upstairs to get signed in, and 505 00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:04,320 then you guys can come back down here and have some refreshments and some 506 00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:08,760 snacks. Sit up in the chair, relax, and don't talk to her while she's talking to 507 00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:09,860 you when I pick your blood sugar. 508 00:29:11,300 --> 00:29:12,760 Flip your hand right through there, Dad. 509 00:29:13,460 --> 00:29:14,460 You ready? 510 00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:18,940 Yeah. Dr. Eugene, nice to meet you. What we're doing at this table is we're 511 00:29:18,940 --> 00:29:21,860 checking for blood sugars and doing like a diabetes screen. 512 00:29:23,060 --> 00:29:24,460 Oh, no problem. There you go, hon. 513 00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:29,120 You got to cut back on the beers because there's a lot of sugar in there. We're 514 00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:33,700 going to provide you a place to go to to monitor your blood pressure. 515 00:29:33,900 --> 00:29:35,940 I think you're next for your counseling session there. 516 00:29:36,140 --> 00:29:39,880 Your blood sugar needs to be stabilized. You need IV fluids probably. 517 00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:41,400 Hi there. 518 00:29:41,860 --> 00:29:43,200 Aren't you adorable? 519 00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:45,100 Are you going to cry? 520 00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:46,320 Okay, 521 00:29:46,500 --> 00:29:47,500 I don't want to do you then. 522 00:29:47,660 --> 00:29:52,240 You hear people say, I'm going to pray for you and, you know, bless you. But 523 00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:55,600 it's a little bit different and a lot more rewarding when you actually put 524 00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:57,420 something in somebody's hand. 525 00:29:57,800 --> 00:29:58,759 Here you go. 526 00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:04,660 Or you give somebody some knowledge to change their lives. So this is probably 527 00:30:04,660 --> 00:30:07,740 like the high point of the trip so far. Hello. 528 00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:10,020 Hi. Don't you act shy. 529 00:30:12,780 --> 00:30:17,140 This may have been last minute, but I have to say I am so impressed. 530 00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:18,780 So many people came. 531 00:30:19,060 --> 00:30:20,060 What's your name? 532 00:30:20,740 --> 00:30:22,700 Hi, Tamia. You're so pretty. 533 00:30:23,100 --> 00:30:25,900 The thing that touched my heart the deepest are the children. 534 00:30:26,460 --> 00:30:33,320 White people are really nice. 535 00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:38,120 We can really stand up as a unit strong. 536 00:30:38,540 --> 00:30:39,620 But what do we do? 537 00:30:40,020 --> 00:30:41,920 We fight about it doesn't matter. 538 00:30:42,920 --> 00:30:45,900 We hurt each other for what? There's no gain in it. 539 00:30:53,000 --> 00:30:57,040 Coming up. You're actually going to pair with a different spouse. 540 00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:58,760 Oh, Lord. 541 00:30:59,060 --> 00:31:00,620 We don't share a spouse with child. 542 00:31:00,940 --> 00:31:03,520 Jackie, you look quite beautiful in your electric blue. 543 00:31:03,780 --> 00:31:04,479 Thank you. 544 00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:08,300 Your sexy is coming way back. Stand up. Let us see the sexy. 545 00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:12,040 Listen, and you feel the butt cheek, too. 546 00:31:13,439 --> 00:31:16,840 Yes! She's just not ready to come out full throttle in a bathing suit. 547 00:31:17,260 --> 00:31:21,520 I'm going to need her to put some spanks or body magic or something underneath 548 00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:24,080 that bathing suit. Let me see what you're wearing, Toya. 549 00:31:24,340 --> 00:31:28,780 You know, just a little something, something. There's no jiggling that ass. 550 00:31:28,780 --> 00:31:29,699 Nathan's type. 551 00:31:29,700 --> 00:31:31,760 It's all tight. It's all tight. You know. 552 00:31:31,980 --> 00:31:36,340 Oh, honey, we got some croc going on, some lavender, some hood, some crochet. 553 00:31:36,800 --> 00:31:41,760 You go, Miss Toya. She's giving the people Nathan's song. 554 00:31:42,669 --> 00:31:46,290 Orange hair. I call it spice. Sonia Connery. She's giving the people strip 555 00:31:46,290 --> 00:31:47,029 the beach. 556 00:31:47,030 --> 00:31:50,550 What about you, Mariah? What you working with over there? Let's save them for 557 00:31:50,550 --> 00:31:53,970 tomorrow. I mean, now, y 'all just gonna force me to do it. 558 00:31:54,190 --> 00:31:58,950 Oh, I like that. You know, I believe that I should save something for my 559 00:31:58,950 --> 00:31:59,950 husband. 560 00:32:01,330 --> 00:32:02,330 Hey, 561 00:32:05,090 --> 00:32:08,290 babe. Yeah? Can you help me freshen up my makeup? 562 00:32:09,230 --> 00:32:11,690 Oh, so you need me to come in there and put some lashes on? 563 00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:14,720 Yeah. Toy, you said Eugene helped her. 564 00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:16,180 Yeah, I'm not Eugene. 565 00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:17,600 Oh, damn. 566 00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:23,720 Last year in Blue Ridge, we had the couple session, and it was amazing. 567 00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:26,760 How many times a week should a couple have sex? 568 00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:30,820 Me and Eugene at one point said we wanted to have sex at least once a week. 569 00:32:31,040 --> 00:32:32,280 Yeah. It don't happen. 570 00:32:36,659 --> 00:32:40,480 You and your partner, sometimes you feel like your partner is like way off base. 571 00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:44,820 When it's brought out in a group, then you're like, okay, it's not just my 572 00:32:44,820 --> 00:32:45,820 partner's crazy. 573 00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:47,760 All of these ladies are crazy. 574 00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:50,080 No, that is not what you were supposed to be saying. 575 00:32:50,420 --> 00:32:53,640 Okay, that's what I get out of it. You're going to jack me up. I've watched 576 00:32:53,640 --> 00:32:55,480 do it. I can do it now. Oh, you can? 577 00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:57,260 Yeah. Y 'all good? 578 00:32:57,500 --> 00:32:58,900 Let's go. You a nut. 579 00:33:09,210 --> 00:33:14,430 Couple therapy, for me, means that I'm going to be able to hear other people 580 00:33:14,430 --> 00:33:17,290 going through some of the situations that I've been through. 581 00:33:18,310 --> 00:33:19,470 That's what it's all about. 582 00:33:19,750 --> 00:33:23,390 Like, we're all at so many different places in our marriages that we have so 583 00:33:23,390 --> 00:33:24,450 much to offer each other. 584 00:33:26,850 --> 00:33:29,390 The mirror on the wall. 585 00:33:29,670 --> 00:33:31,790 Who's the most beautiful one of all? 586 00:33:32,870 --> 00:33:34,390 Couples therapy, well... 587 00:33:35,180 --> 00:33:40,640 I think that that could be a pretty good thing considering all of the 588 00:33:40,640 --> 00:33:44,980 interesting dynamics that my husband and I have been having over the last few 589 00:33:44,980 --> 00:33:45,980 months. 590 00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:12,139 This is what I love, us having a good time, partying, and just really enjoying 591 00:34:12,139 --> 00:34:13,139 the energy. 592 00:34:13,280 --> 00:34:14,760 Maybe there is hope for us. 593 00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:24,920 Why do I want to waste calories on non -alcoholics? 594 00:34:25,260 --> 00:34:26,420 You don't have brown? 595 00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:28,440 You'd have Jill and Kisa together. 596 00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:32,659 What's up with Jill? She done lost her damn mind with this brunette wig. 597 00:34:32,989 --> 00:34:37,429 If the man can buy a new hair, he can buy a new breast, can he get a brain? 598 00:34:37,989 --> 00:34:41,010 That's the thing. I mean, if you want to be a surgeon, be a brain surgeon and 599 00:34:41,010 --> 00:34:42,010 buy this bitch a brain. 600 00:34:42,469 --> 00:34:45,030 Well, they have a rice and macaroni and jelly. 601 00:34:45,550 --> 00:34:51,409 The bonsai is absolutely beautiful. I mean, they woo you in with all this 602 00:34:51,409 --> 00:34:55,590 warm, comfortable setting, good food, lots to drink. 603 00:34:56,570 --> 00:34:57,590 Hoo, but I'm nervous. 604 00:34:58,830 --> 00:34:59,830 So... 605 00:35:00,750 --> 00:35:06,330 things we're gonna do tonight is we're gonna have an exercise which i came up 606 00:35:06,330 --> 00:35:13,310 with a little name partner repair you're actually gonna pair 607 00:35:13,310 --> 00:35:20,210 with a different sound oh lord we don't share spouses child i'm going to 608 00:35:20,210 --> 00:35:22,970 repair you 609 00:35:23,870 --> 00:35:29,490 with a different partner, and get his perspective, another perspective, and we 610 00:35:29,490 --> 00:35:32,190 are going to repair your issue. 611 00:35:32,890 --> 00:35:37,670 When you go to your new wife, each lady would talk about an issue. 612 00:35:37,930 --> 00:35:40,110 Oh, God. See, I came with y 'all. 613 00:35:40,390 --> 00:35:44,570 I like that. I actually was going to swap you for Jill's husband just to see 614 00:35:44,570 --> 00:35:45,570 what it was like. 615 00:35:46,310 --> 00:35:47,610 See what what was like. 616 00:35:47,890 --> 00:35:50,270 You always saying you want a quiet woman, you know. 617 00:35:51,050 --> 00:35:52,330 I don't see her as quiet. 618 00:35:54,550 --> 00:36:01,410 To start, Heavenly, come to the circle and join your husband, Curtis. 619 00:36:03,510 --> 00:36:06,230 Curtis. Come on, baby. Come on, daddy. 620 00:36:07,550 --> 00:36:09,390 Hey, hey, hey. 621 00:36:09,610 --> 00:36:10,890 I'm a little nervous. 622 00:36:11,330 --> 00:36:16,190 With Dr. Heavenly, you're never quite sure how she's going to respond. 623 00:36:17,180 --> 00:36:18,180 In a situation. 624 00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:21,480 Never. My word today is priority. 625 00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:22,940 Let me tell you something. 626 00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:28,420 I set my own priorities because I know what's most important to me. And you 627 00:36:28,420 --> 00:36:33,820 I was driven when you met me. I know I take care of my kids. I make enough 628 00:36:33,820 --> 00:36:37,700 to pay the people that I need to pay to take care of the minor things so I can 629 00:36:37,700 --> 00:36:38,740 take care of the major things. 630 00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:43,520 I can't stay home. I know you want what's best for us and I know you want 631 00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:44,520 best for me. 632 00:36:44,860 --> 00:36:47,300 You knew who I was when you married me. 633 00:36:48,140 --> 00:36:52,120 I think that Damon had a very old -fashioned view of what our roles would 634 00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:57,040 think he thought that I would be, you know, home, cooking dinner, barefoot and 635 00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:58,040 pregnant. 636 00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:04,480 I think that he has a very old -fashioned sense of what a man's role is 637 00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:07,760 woman's role. But that's one of the things I do love about him, that he 638 00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:08,760 his role as a man. 639 00:37:09,180 --> 00:37:12,220 Now, I want you to have what you desire. 640 00:37:13,550 --> 00:37:19,430 But when you made that commitment to be my wife, things change. Things change 641 00:37:19,430 --> 00:37:22,410 for me. They change for you. Don't forget, we're in this together. 642 00:37:23,210 --> 00:37:25,830 And our priorities should be somewhat of the same. 643 00:37:26,050 --> 00:37:30,190 But sometimes I just want to do what I want to do, not what you think I could. 644 00:37:31,230 --> 00:37:33,770 I want you to have what you desire. 645 00:37:34,090 --> 00:37:37,690 As long as that doesn't interfere with what we have in terms of our marriage 646 00:37:37,690 --> 00:37:40,590 our kids, I'm all for it. All right? Okay. 647 00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:46,720 I want her to be happy. I love when she's happy. I like when she's excited 648 00:37:46,720 --> 00:37:47,960 the things that she does. 649 00:37:48,260 --> 00:37:53,500 And if I had held her back in any form or fashion, she wouldn't have done some 650 00:37:53,500 --> 00:37:54,500 amazing things. 651 00:37:55,540 --> 00:37:59,280 Our next couple will come to the circle. 652 00:38:00,260 --> 00:38:04,560 That couple will be Lisa and her new husband, Dr. 653 00:38:04,820 --> 00:38:05,820 Aiden. 654 00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:10,000 No, cover up. He likes his women covered up on him. Let me help you out. 655 00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:16,300 I believe my husband is a good man. I don't believe my husband. But I do 656 00:38:16,300 --> 00:38:20,660 that we have to work on our trust and transparency. 657 00:38:22,240 --> 00:38:23,240 Okay, honey. 658 00:38:24,180 --> 00:38:29,900 The last time we were talking about transparency, and I need to be as 100 % 659 00:38:29,900 --> 00:38:31,240 transparent as possible. 660 00:38:31,620 --> 00:38:38,420 It's not just not telling little lies and being 100 % honest. I know I can 661 00:38:38,420 --> 00:38:39,420 be kind of rigid. 662 00:38:40,220 --> 00:38:46,220 And my ways of thinking, you know, and what I think we should have in a 663 00:38:46,220 --> 00:38:48,500 and what I don't think we should have in a marriage. 664 00:38:49,720 --> 00:38:51,720 We've been through so much in our marriage. 665 00:38:52,500 --> 00:38:56,680 And we've learned to get through it. 666 00:38:58,720 --> 00:39:03,800 But when information is withheld, it's like a lie too, you know. And 667 00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:08,380 I'm just at a place where I feel like if you don't have trust. 668 00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:12,080 You don't have a marriage. 669 00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:20,820 It just causes you to wonder, you know, when you get off from the hospital and 670 00:39:20,820 --> 00:39:26,800 you take two hours to get home, where are you? Are you really taking time to 671 00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:30,340 finish up your charts, or did you take a little detour to a bar to get a drink? 672 00:39:32,020 --> 00:39:37,820 Coming up, I know I need to, like, just trust that when you say you're going to 673 00:39:37,820 --> 00:39:39,660 be somewhere, you're there. 674 00:39:43,980 --> 00:39:50,900 We've been through so much in our marriage, and we've learned to get 675 00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:58,920 But when information is withheld, it's like a lie, too, you know? And I'm just 676 00:39:58,920 --> 00:40:04,240 at a place where I feel like if you don't have trust, you don't have a 677 00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:11,040 I know I need to, like, just trust that when you say you're going to be 678 00:40:11,040 --> 00:40:12,760 somewhere, you're there. 679 00:40:13,420 --> 00:40:16,400 But I'm that way because of all that we've been through. 680 00:40:23,660 --> 00:40:30,260 Sometimes people feel like because you were able to overcome 681 00:40:30,260 --> 00:40:37,120 it and because you were able to forgive and forget, that it doesn't 682 00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:38,940 hurt. And it does. 683 00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:41,000 You know? 684 00:40:41,210 --> 00:40:44,790 It takes a lot of strength to move past that. 685 00:40:45,010 --> 00:40:50,190 Maybe there's part of me that's hindering me from telling some of these 686 00:40:50,190 --> 00:40:55,210 because our relationship or our past, okay, and also you probably give that 687 00:40:55,210 --> 00:40:58,250 energy that I don't want to tell you some of these things. 688 00:40:58,810 --> 00:41:01,770 So it's got to be both ways for you. 689 00:41:02,070 --> 00:41:03,070 Okay. 690 00:41:03,660 --> 00:41:08,780 It is very difficult to watch her be such a strong woman in certain areas and 691 00:41:08,780 --> 00:41:13,340 such a weak woman in this area. And I'm not saying that Darren is cheating now, 692 00:41:13,500 --> 00:41:18,260 but there are different levels of cheating. You don't have to just cheat 693 00:41:18,260 --> 00:41:20,980 bedroom. You know, you can cheat by lying to me. 694 00:41:21,540 --> 00:41:22,920 I mean, it all hurts the same. 695 00:41:23,540 --> 00:41:28,400 Trust is the foundation of growth of everything, from our relationship. 696 00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:32,060 to our family relationship, to our friends' relationship. If you don't have 697 00:41:32,060 --> 00:41:33,320 trust, you don't have anything. 698 00:41:34,940 --> 00:41:40,940 When you believe that God has picked this woman for me, 699 00:41:41,100 --> 00:41:45,300 he is going to make sure we get through. 700 00:41:46,259 --> 00:41:50,000 The challenges, because there are going to be challenges. The obstacles, because 701 00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:52,460 there are going to be obstacles. The hills, the valleys. 702 00:41:52,860 --> 00:41:55,900 But in the end, when we're 80 years old, we're going to be sitting on top of 703 00:41:55,900 --> 00:41:58,760 that mountain because we've been through the valleys. We've been through the 704 00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:03,080 lows. We've been through the obstacles because God chose this person for me. 705 00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:08,940 Next time on Married to Medicine. 706 00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:12,000 Toya, you can be mean sometimes. 707 00:42:12,500 --> 00:42:14,060 And your friends even know it. 708 00:42:14,640 --> 00:42:18,660 They want to be your friend. I want to be your husband. But it can be rough. 709 00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:22,160 If you're not there, I bet you it's boring. 710 00:42:22,500 --> 00:42:23,940 No, Mariah, that baby. 711 00:42:24,260 --> 00:42:26,280 Ooh, and I need a break from that bitch, too. 712 00:42:26,860 --> 00:42:28,040 It's like, you know what? 713 00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:31,220 If you're not over it, stay away. 714 00:42:31,740 --> 00:42:35,240 But I'm not going to fake it that, like, y 'all didn't lie on me. I'm not. I 715 00:42:35,240 --> 00:42:36,480 lied? Yes. 716 00:42:37,260 --> 00:42:38,260 Girl! 717 00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:39,760 What's going on? 718 00:42:39,880 --> 00:42:42,380 Y 'all better check that bitch. And we're done with you. 719 00:42:43,720 --> 00:42:46,900 For more on Married to Medicine, go to bravotv .com.